Frustration seems to creep in, when people tend to be different from what you expect them to.

Why is it so that only certain people get closer to one and the rest seem not to be in the same league? One reason might be their attitude, their thinking and their reciprocation to one’s actions. This behavior tends to make those certain people, that extra special, who at times are termed as best friends.

However, people seem to be frustrated most of the times with their best friend rather than with others. People cite the reason as sense of belongingness, which lets them vent their frustrations on them. However, this does not seem to be a reason enough. Why do they have to be frustrated with people who are that extra special.

One reason might be that those do not behave or react in a way they are expected to be. It seems to be very natural that one builds up expectations about people whom he terms close / “best” friends. It is a different thing that many a people do not realize being close is a two-way affair and the initiative has to be at both ends. Coming back to expectations, it is easily forgotten that one does not behave in a rational or expected manner, at all times, for various reasons.

People seem to forget this simple thing and build up frustrations and gain nothing but loss of valuable energy and time, which could have been employed for better purpose.